If so, you might be reinforcing a false belief that your body is simply your own.
Your body is for the Lord ()—and your wife if you are married.
For this person, the act is merely performing a bodily function.
As such, there is little emotion attached to the experience, and typically no sense of guilt or shame. Men who lust during masturbation (Type C) – These men are “disconnected” during the act of masturbation: their focus is on a mental image, an actual image, or an object.
At first glance, the question “Can you masturbate without lusting? For those who feel no guilt or shame about the matter, the question sounds ridiculous.
For those who are utterly opposed to all masturbation, regardless of the internal dynamics that drive it, the question sounds irrelevant.
He reminds men of the solemn command of 1 Corinthians 7:4, “The husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.” Regardless of your motive for masturbation, your wife has authority over your sexuality.
“God is the first, your wife is the second and you are the third owner of your penis,” writes Weiss.
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Here Weiss offers some sage advice: Does the woman of your fantasies match the woman you are married to? If so, you are reinforcing a chemical process in your brain to be turned on by your fantasy wife, and this will only frustrate you when your real wife doesn’t measure up.
Do you change aspects of your fantasy wife that don’t match who your real wife is? I would add to this: Masturbating to fantasies of your wife, while preferable to other images, also trains your body and mind to be more me-centered in your sexuality.