You are unlikely to turn these women into lovers, but by trying, at least you'll get them out of your life, and clear some psychic space for women who do want to be sexual with you.So what can you do to get "just a friend" to become your lover?If you do what we say, things will start seeming more romantic with the women you befriended.She'll either get with the program (and probably tell you, "You've changed!
Consequently he is indecisive and appears weak to her, always nervous, always waiting for her to relax before he relaxes.Since she's probably been looking to "you" and your behavior to know how to feel about things, most of the time this will actually help her relax.The chances are, you are kind of depressed with the female "friends" you want to have sex with, complaining about your life and generally being a whiner. She should find herself thinking, "Wow, he seems pretty happy, even without me. " rather than "Wow, this guy is a downer." You must act more upbeat, and like you have something going on in your life.I am attracted to you." Then stop hanging around with her -- at least then you'll be doing something positive for your self-esteem as a man.If she goes for it and gets romantic with you, you may be tempted to fall into the trap of acting like a friend again. Follow seduction protocol, as outlined in our book "How to Succeed with Women." Best of luck!You MUST be pursuing other women, flirting with other women, romancing other women, and being sexual with other women.Pursuing and being successful with other women is the only way to have real freedom around the "friend" woman you are trying to seduce.He doesn't ever flirt or say anything romantic, because he doesn't want to risk making her uncomfortable.Only if he had a clear signal that flirting was okay would he do it. If you are going to be seductive with a woman, you must be willing to provide the certainty in the interaction that everything is okay -- even if it's romantic.Let's look at the basic primer on friends-to-lovers, Louis and Copeland style.If you want to turn a friend into a lover, it is crucial beyond words that she not be your one-and-only-hope for sex.For more great tips on meeting and dating women or to ask a question go to Being someone’s BFF is a big deal—you don’t hand over the other half of your “Best Friends” necklace to just anyone.Having a romantic partner who is also your best friend potentially sounds perfect.