If he was the right guy for you…well he would be with you!
He wouldn’t have come up with a list of reasons to never see or speak to you again, and proceed to never see or speak to you again.
OK, so now that we know why, let’s talk about what to do to help you move on to greener pastures. Girls will come up with all kinds of deluded reasons why they absolutely must initiate contact.
You can stop a disappearance before it happens if you know what signs to look for. Do you know what to do to get things back on track? He always vanishing, sometimes untill 3 days or more.I’m tired to talking about why he vanishing, many times i talked but he keep vanishing and come back. Bcs if he love me he will make me important, and keep in touch with me no matter how busy he is, no matter how much he travels and no matter how much he has going on in his life. I told him i knew he was never going to contact me again.I remained calm and neutral and respectful as I wanted to retain my dignity.My closure was that I ended it myself by giving him a quick hug, saying goodbye and going down the steps knowing he’d never contact me ever again, and that I couldn’t care less. A great burden was lifted from me and I felt free again.over a week ago we had an amazing outdoor activity. So we spent that weekend training, and we had lunch and laughs afterwards.He responded a day after thanking me for the simple gift I gave him. Then yesterday, I shoot him a message on facebook asking for a certain schedule of an event.Until today he has not responded, though I see him always online on Facebook.The sooner you realize and accept this, the better off you’ll be in the long run. When a guy disappears, it’s almost inevitable to feel a flood of self-doubt.Remember, if he wanted to see/speak to you, he would. You didn’t do anything wrong and you are “good enough” to have the relationship you want with a man you want, this guy just wasn’t it.Because it’s an uncomfortable conversation to have and he doesn’t want to have it. Also, men just aren’t as equipped to handle emotions and emotional situations as women are, so they avoid them. They tell themselves that she must know this isn’t going to work out and calling and telling her something she already knows would just be silly, so that’s the end of that. Most men would rather walk over a bed of burning hot coals than tell a girl to her face they’re not into her. And most of the time, they will reason that the girl is probably on the same page so there is no need to reach out.He replied he was just busy and sure he was, he was full of lame excuses and denials and I believe some lies as well.He never once showed me any of his past warmth such as reaching to touch me etc, while I was there.I took a long hard look at him and saw him for what he really was and realized I wanted to let him go, that his attitude toward me was undesirable, and that I really couldn’t even like him anymore.