For women who would like a sexual partner — and there are a lot of women who are actually more sexually orientated than men — these younger guys are great.
I think that is what younger men find appealing — there is a certain beauty inside that reflects in our glow.We should know what we like out of life, and what types of people make us laugh.So we should share that new, confident person that we’ve become.That has to do with a lot of deep work I do with women — coming back to love themselves and feeling empowered within themselves.We often give that power up, which puts limitations to our personality.Men are out there trolling those sites and looking to see who’s available. Actually, I think men are more into relationships than many women. Next on our list of surprising things about over 50 dating is the number of younger men who are interested in older women. ” Believe it or not, they think that we are low maintenance, which cracks me up.They’ll browse the profiles of women older than them. So I advise that you don’t get too caught up in that. Women have more emotional connections in their lives with friends and family, while the only way a man has an emotional connection, or a safe place to talk about his stuff, is with a woman. If you go out on a date, they’ll say, “I can see my mother liking you,” or “I can see my kids liking you.” So you’re thinking, “Oh, he loves me and is going to ask me out again,” but he never asks you out because he was future talking. Maybe it’s part of the psychology of men, to be organizing things and preparing for going on the hunt. I always think hair alone, once you’re over 50, is high maintenance.Just like every other stage of life and of relationships, it’s never perfect.When you’re dating at a younger age, you face a whole set of different issues. You should remember that this is a time in your life when you can have fun. Put them in your life in all different slots, not just as boyfriend or husband. You have so many choices, don’t get caught into, “It just has to be one person for the rest of my life.” Margaret: That is the biggest surprise of all.I told them about my business and the challenges that I face. The point is, you can attract people of any age by just being yourself and being interesting. I didn’t create any romantic relationships there, but it didn’t matter somehow. It was a surprise to me that I could still be attractive to people just for who I was. Going back to our list of surprises about over 50 dating, something we should mention is the sexual dysfunction that happens both for women and for men.We, especially, always think of men as viral and constantly able to do ‘it,’ but men have tremendous sexual dysfunction issues.If you like a guy who’s still pursuing 35-year-old women when he’s in his 60’s, you should think about why you would want that kind of man in the first place. I think another surprise is that there are a lot of guys out there who want to find relationships. I remember talking once to another dating coach, David Wygant. It scares women, but a lot of men would call you ‘honey’ or ‘babe’ before they’ve even met you. Most women dye their hair; then there’s also the one hair you get on your chin.So, yes, they consider us much lower maintenance than women their own age.Life is short, and we need to have friends who are doing the things we love to do and have fun doing them.