How to pick up women online: 3 simple tips that will save you lots of time When you want to know how to pick up women online, you have to pick your battles carefully...because there are tens of thousands of profiles on hundreds of sites, making online dating more of a maze than an easily digestable thing.
In fact, the vast majority of men CAN’T tell the forrest from the trees anymore: when to message a woman, when NOT to message her, what to pay attention to?
Unless you consider a mix of the boyish charm of Ryan Gosling with the smokey masculinity of Denzel Washington average.
(The ladies call me Denzel Goslington.) In closing, I’d like to thank our lovely Olivia for this very instructive session.
I read your emails, and I get it: you don’t give a shit. When someone starts off saying they’re emailing me again, it’s like I feel bad for ignoring them and thus I pay more attention to them.
So what if hot chicks get deluged with awfully mean and awfully written emails – they’re hot chicks. I was a little surprised at your ruthlessness, but hey, I’m a hot chick. (I’m working on a catchphrase here.) This week’s lesson from Olivia is far more practical. When you get a lot of emails, it’s very easy for most of them to just get lost and drowned out, even ones that I liked. I TOULD YOU about the power of the second email months ago, and I’m happy to see Olivia agrees.
I don’t dismiss someone based on his looks, because when you get to know someone, you can become more attracted to them.
If someone writes a great, engaging email, but is only average looking, I may still respond.
Wasting time while meeting women online is more deceptive than it sounds: time flies by when you’re easily distracted, and I’d like to give you 3 time SAVING tips that will PREVENT you from losing focus and doing what you came there to do in the first place, which is meeting interesting women.
Even if a guy is attractive, I still won’t respond to these messages.
Read the profile, say something specific, and make a lasting impression But you guys knew that, right? That last point however brings us to perhaps Olivia’s most interesting suggestion, and one I didn’t expect.
It’s advice that I believe applies to all of us, whether we’re searching for a cute older straight guy or an exotic younger lesbian lady. She’s happy to answer more questions, so if you have any quandaries of your own, send them my way, and I’ll see what we can do.
Oh, and before she finished, Olivia hand one more It’s Not a Match credo to reinforce: If you want to get my attention, your only bet is to send an email, because that’s the only reason I’m going to look at your profile.