If you are playing with gloves take the condom off and then gloves off after the genital play.
If you come out positive for an STD tell everyone that you have slept with during the window between your last negative test.
If you cannot keep an agreement, be sure to discuss it with your partner(s) responsibly BEFORE breaking it.
Due to unforeseen circumstances, forgetting, misunderstanding, if an agreement is broken, we will agree to a clearing conversation as soon as possible.
Each individual is responsible for making their own decisions and considers the affects of their decisions on everyone they love.
If you want the cliff notes on how we do polyamory and create relationship agreements, there are five basic bottom lines: 1) Do no harm, 2) Practice Self Love, 3) Total transparency, 3) Safe sex and 5) Reduce drama.
This document contains details about these bottom lines as well as best practices in all 5 areas.
Here’s a ‘behind the scenes’ look at the real contract written by the San Diego Polyamory Pod family.
This is a living document that has evolved with Kamala Devi and Michael’s open marriage over last 15 years, it has now expanded to include about a dozen polyamorous lovers.