But I just had to know whether he was thinking about me. The games exes play I had been listening to the Jets ‘Look what you’ve done’ all morning, and out of habit of letting the world know my favorite song of the day, I updated my status to a youtube link of the song and logged out. I googled his blog and saw that he had posted something lame about the weather being too down and mellow. I smiled to myself, and almost instantly remembered that I was still in pain. We ended up breaking up again, and this time around, I took him off my friends list in facebook.
I logged into facebook on an early Saturday morning and feverishly typed his name. Whoa, wait a minute, the weather was down and mellow?! It was the middle of summer and the days have been bright and sunny. I kept visiting his blog several times that day, it felt good to read his gloomy weather post. An eventful Saturday The day passed by uneventfully and I watched a couple of depressing movies that made me feel worse. I decided to go out and spend some time with my friends. ] I moved on and met my friends in the corner of the street, where we decided to go shopping. We had broken up for a reason, because we were incompatible with each other.
He thought I was too flirty and had way too many male friends, and I, well I thought he was an introvert who just didn’t like me having too many friends. I hadn’t heard from him in over a week and I was extremely curious to know what he was up to. [Read: Why you can’t find love no matter what you do] The conflicting emotions were driving me mad. Furiously, I started shuffling through my playlist and found another song I liked. It read “I’m a winner at a losing game” and linked it to Rascal Flatts. All of a sudden, I was more obsessed and in love with my ex than I ever was. Meeting my ex boyfriend again That very evening, we ending up bumping into each other *accidently*, and it was great. And before we knew it, we were hugging each other and I felt like I was in a warm pillow, ready to sink into blissful dreams. [Read: The secret law of attraction in love] We got home together and got back together that evening.
I didn’t want to hear anything about him for the first few days. I loved him, but I didn’t need him or want him back. Perhaps, he was waiting for me to announce the news to the world. Moving on with my life Life was exceptionally good. The same problems we experienced at the start started cropping up all over again, and life was more painful than I could remember.
My hands were itching to comment something, and I just had to do it. I missed him so much, it had been a week since I had heard from him. I felt better, and I saw a gazillion things that I wanted to gift him. Later that night, I missed him more than I had all week since the break up. ] I logged into facebook and to my surprise, my ex had updated his status too, with a link to a song. It’s normal to have feelings for each other even after breaking up. But that really was no reason to get back because we were just not happy in love.
And soon enough, the word will spread through the grapevine and you’ll know your ex has been paying a lot of attention to your life.
#4 Are you web savvy and have a personal blog where you share your daily gossip?
Big chances are, your ex will be lingering around your blog waiting to hear the next big thing in your life.
Break ups are painful, and as much as it hurts, break ups also bring with it the hope of getting an ex back or meeting someone new to fill the void.
I’ve broken hearts a few times, and have had my heart broken several times too.