Hell - I got dates while undergoing chemo, losing my hair, and after gaining 50 pounds (and I already was a bigger girl).If you look for racial insinuations everywhere you go, you're not going to be very happy. Many people don't take it seriously and it allows you to be incredibly picky.
At least with online dating, you have a much bigger pool to be picky with.Then you'll be well on your way to a successful life of dating in Boston. I don't know how old you are, but my social group is in its mid 20s to mid 30s and we all have had success on OKC.In many cases, more success than more typical ways of meeting people.It's not about being the best looking person there oozing sex appeal.And because speed dating has such a short time frame, it might be helpful to bring along a stop watch and divy the five minutes in half, with one half listening to her story and the other half you selling yourself.I think that you just need to move to another city right away.I work in catering and so I work many social events in the Boston area, and I see many happy interracial and same race couples.Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!Some forums can only be seen by registered members.It's not about how someone looks, but them exuding an attractive personality.The other person wants to be with someone who is confident, relaxed and happy with themselves, who has a good sense of humour and makes them laugh, who comes across as great company to be with and who is also someone that they can trust their heart to.Plus you being so desperate hints that if the first date doesn't work out, you'd be hard to get out of their lives without you making some stupid comment about the colour of your skin being the reason they didn't fall in love with a pic and I will tell you if it's your appearance.I'm a "minority" woman, and rarely feel discriminated against.The racism I witness is usually a co-worker's ignorant comments or students walking by talking in fake spanish accents. I recently attended a speed dating event for the first time in my life in Boston.