Westheimer believes we should all let go of old-fashioned notions, such as women are not sexual or that sex is just sex to men. Don’t minimize it.” The research, says Parrott, supports the idea that both men and women find sexual intimacy in the context of a committed relationship to be more satisfying.“Numerous research studies make it very clear that the people who have the best quality and most frequent sex are married couples.
But it’s the only way to achieve a satisfying sexual relationship.
Generally, men want to be pursued by their partners just as much as women do.
Holding onto outdated ideas about sex roles also inhibits satisfaction with our sexual relationships, says "Dr.
Ruth," aka Ruth Westheimer, Ph D, a psychosexual therapist, professor at New York University, and lecturer at Yale and Princeton universities.
“They used to think that women are less interested in sexual activity and I don’t want to say that anymore.